Looking-for-group (LFG) for LGBTQIA+ gamers. Find your party for the games you play.
Join the waitlist// player 1, ready?
Squad up without the toxic lobby
gaymr is a looking-for-group (LFG) app for LGBTQIA+ gamers who are 18 or older. Post what and how you want to play, fill your party with people who get it, and keep the good ones for next time.
It finds your party by the games you play, never by where you are.
gaymr is not ready yet. Every signup tells us how many players want it.
You are on the list.
GG. We send one email, when gaymr is ready, with a one-click link to remove your address. Nothing arrives before that.
We saved . If that address is wrong, join again with the right one. The wrong address stays on the list until the launch email.
Know someone who needs a better lobby?
// how it works
From solo queue to full party
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Add your games
Pick the games and platforms you play: PC, PlayStation, Xbox, or Switch. Add your playstyle and the times you usually play.
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Post or join
Choose a game, an activity, a party size, and a time: right now or later. Other players can join with one tap. Schedule ahead and get a reminder before the start time.
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Play, then keep your people
After the session, say who you would play with again. If they say yes too, you both get a heads-up the next time one of you posts. Players who keep skipping sessions can join and create fewer posts for a while.
Helldivers 2
Mission ยท party of 4
// safe by default
Built for us, with safety in mind
gaymr is for games, not dating: no swiping, no "nearby," no nudity. It never asks for your location.
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Your gamertag stays yours
party listBefore you join nova_kite gamertag hiddenIn the party nova_kite KiteRunner#4821By default, your gamertag stays hidden until you are in a party together. Your Discord name shows only to your party. Nobody can look you up by gamertag.
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No identity filters
feed ranks byPronouns are optional. By default, only the people you party up with can see them. Nobody can search, sort, or filter people by identity.
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Quiet notifications
lock screen
gaymrnow You have a new notificationNotifications say "You have a new notification" unless you ask for more detail. The app name and icon still say gaymr. App lock is there if you want it.
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Moderation with a clock
report clockTargets for the first action by a moderator. 1 hour Threats of violence, self-harm 4 hours Doxxing, intimate images shared without consent 24 hours Harassment, hate speech, outing threats 72 hours Spam and other reports Block and report from anywhere. Response time targets are public, and every decision has an appeal.
Examples only. The design is not final.
// plays nice with others
Keep your Discord. Lose the scroll.
LFG messages in a busy server are gone in minutes. gaymr gives each game its own feed of open parties and sends you back to voice chat where you already are: Discord, PlayStation party, Xbox party, or Switch 2 GameChat.
Questions and answers
What do you keep when I join the waitlist?
Your email address, the time you joined, and the link that brought you here. Nothing else. If we do not build gaymr, we delete the list.
Who is gaymr for?
LGBTQIA+ gamers who are 18 or older. We do not ask you to prove your identity, and the community guidelines apply to everyone.
What will it cost?
Creating and joining groups is free. Safety features will never be paid features. An optional supporter tier with cosmetics may become available in the future.
Which games will it support?
The plan is to start with a small set of popular multiplayer games, so that each game has enough players to build a community, and then to unlock more games as players add them.
Where can I use it?
It will be available on iPhone, Android, and desktop web browsers. Early access is limited to the United States. You can join the waitlist from any country.
What happens to my data in the app?
No trackers and no ad targeting. gaymr launches with no ads. If ads ever come, they match the game, not you. Your data is never shared with advertisers. Delete your account and your data goes with it, within 30 days.